I have the feeling ren na hindi na makakabayad bro in law ko. Kung makabayad sya, then congrats to us. Sa nangyari, the good part is, naintindihan ng husband ko na important ang family nya (comprises of sya, ako and baby)

I really told him in a very cool tone na before sya magpahiram ng pera, isipin nya muna family nya, kasi married na sya and may anak pa. And to tell me naman kung may uutang and ask my opinion ren. I also told him that ok lang pautangin nya bro nya ng malaking amount kc bro nya yun. Kaso wag naman yung buong amount ng uutangin nya then magugutom mismong family.

I think my husband gets my point. I think naabsorb nya mga sinabi ko. Napaso sya ngayon sa bro nya. This is the 2nd time na hindi sya mababayaran ng ganung kalaking halaga. The first time is regarding commissions sa pag-aahente of about 7 years ago.

Weird ko ba? Cool talaga ako hahaha

I am actually planning to save money na nakahiwalay. Kung may extra money na.

Looks like you should start thinking about squirreling away some money. At the rate that things are going, it doesn’t look like your bro-in-law is going to be able to pay off his loan to you. The worst part is that the bro-in-law might sink even deeper into debt and your husband will feel obligated to help him out again.

Open up a new account and don’t let your husband know – tell your parents or whoever you trust so that someone is at least aware of that in case something happens to you *knock on wood* – and start stashing money in that new account. This way, even if you really have extra money left over, your husband won’t even be able to lend it to his brother again.
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